What is this? (a pencil) What do pencils do?
(take notes) If you are at a restaurant and the server has a pad and pencil,
what is she doing? Listening to write
down your order and not make a mistake. Do
you know that the internet is not a good listener? If you google something, it tries to finish
the sentence before you are done. The
worst thing is Autocorrect. Here are
some funny Autocorrect mistakes.
1. I like watching how I Met your
Mothballs. The person was trying to say,
How I met your Mother.
2. Ugh, I just hate sitting by the phone
waiting for it to ripen. Reply: Is your
phone a banana? Ripen instead of ring.
3. 1:Are you coming to my New Years Eve party?
2: Of course I will be there. 1: Ok cool, because I am going to kill you at
midnight. The person meant to say kiss.
4. 1: I’m sorry, I should have told you
sooner. 2: I’m mad. I don’t want you to
keep squirrelmeat from me! Intended word
was secrets
5. I start my new job with the police force on
Thursday. I just picked up my new
unicorn. 2: I would never get mad if a
cop pulled me over on a unicorn.
6. 1: I had a huge tag sale this weekend and
made $450. 2: nice, I’m selling my father’s organs. Should make a pretty penny. He meant to say organ.
7. I Love that new eye slicer you bought me
last year. She meant egg slicer, I
assume.
8. Need anything from Taliban? The person meant some store named Ralph’s,
not Taliban.
9. One
time autocorrect changed a woman named Chelsea to “Cheesy”
10. One time it change my name, Meghan, to
Methane.
If you want to have friends, you have to be a
good listener. You have to listen to
what they say without forming in your head what to say next so that you know exactly
who they are and why they do what they do.
You may not want to actually have a pad and pencil when you talk to your
friends. That may seem weird though it’s
not a bad idea either. I’ve never done
it.
I do remember when my grandmother was old and
really hard-of-hearing, I would bring a pad and pen and write in big letters
what I was telling her. When I first
started dating my husband, he went with me to meet her and she first thought he
was my brother Andrew. She said, “Drew!
You got bigger!” I had to write in big
letters, “THIS IS MY BOYFRIEND, TIM!” I
miss Granny.
But if you have good hearing, then being a
good listener is hard, but important.
One time a teacher had some kid in time out for 5 minutes or so. When it was up, she told her she could go,
but she stayed and they just talked.
Then she asked, “Am I free to go?”
She wasn’t listening. Not
listening cost play time.
Not listening can even lead to tragic
results. The Challenger Explosion was a result of not listening. NASA tried to launch a rocket into outer
space with 7 people on it. The rocket
had a faulty O-ring. The people who
examined the O-ring said to not launch the rocket. They did not listen but launched the
rocket. It exploded and all 7 people
died.
But more importantly than costing you things
you want or your friendships or lives, not listening means you think you
already know. And if you think you
already know, then you could miss out on life or death information not just for
this life but for the life to come.
What is more important thing to know to be
saved? What question do you need to
answer correctly? If you answer the
question, “Who is Jesus?” correctly, then you are saved and are going to
heaven. If not, then you are in big
trouble and need to listen to know how to be saved.
Jesus asked his disciples this one time in
Matthew 16 starting at verse 13.
13 When
Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do
people say the Son of Man is?”
14 They
replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others,
Jeremiah or one of the prophets.”
15 “But what
about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?”
16 Simon
Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.”
17 Jesus
replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to
you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you that you
are Peter,[b] and
on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades[c] will
not overcome it. 19 I will
give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth
will be[d] bound
in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be[e] loosed
in heaven.” 20 Then he
ordered his disciples not to tell anyone that he was the Messiah.
Simon Peter had been a good Jewish boy and
knew the prophecies of Isaiah.
Prophecies like Isaiah 9:6-7:
For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
7 Of the
greatness of his government and peace
there will be no end.
He will reign on David’s
throne
and over his kingdom,
establishing and upholding it
with justice and righteousness
from that time on and forever.
The zeal of the Lord Almighty
will accomplish this.
Good Jewish children also knew about the suffering servant of
Isaiah 53:1-6
Who has
believed our message
and to
whom has the arm of the Lord been
revealed?
2 He grew
up before him like a tender shoot,
and like
a root out of dry ground.
He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him,
nothing
in his appearance that we should desire him.
3 He was
despised and rejected by mankind,
a man of
suffering, and familiar with pain.
Like one from whom people hide their faces
he was
despised, and we held him in low esteem.
4 Surely he took up our pain
and bore
our suffering,
yet we considered him punished by God,
stricken
by him, and afflicted.
5 But he
was pierced for our transgressions,
he was crushed for
our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was on him,
and by
his wounds we are healed.
6 We all,
like sheep, have gone astray,
each of
us has turned to our own way;
and the Lord has laid on
him
the
iniquity of us all.
Did Peter have the right answer? You know he did because Jesus celebrated it
like crazy. How did he know Jesus was
the Messiah? Peter had traveled with
Jesus who healed people, had answers to the toughest religious questions, and
called all people to repent. He had a
following. And if he was Messiah, that
means he was also God in human skin. But
nobody in his time realized that the promised Messiah and the suffering servant
would be the same guy. Here is what
happens when Jesus tries to tell him:
21 From that
time on Jesus began to explain to his disciples that he must go to
Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, the
chief priests and the teachers of the law, and that he must be
killed and on the third day be raised to life.
22 Peter
took him aside and began to rebuke him. “Never, Lord!” he said. “This shall
never happen to you!”
23 Jesus
turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling
block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human
concerns.”
Why would Jesus all Peter Satan? Peter wasn’t listening, and Jesus called him
Satan because Satan did not want Jesus to die for the sins of his people. Satan wanted God’s prize creation lost
forever in their sin and rebellion and to suffer in hell forever with him. And right now, Peter was encouraging Jesus to
not give up his life, following Satan’s plan.
But Jesus knew better, that he would die for Peter’s sins, mine, and
yours.
But the point is, Peter wasn’t listening. Peter thought he already knew what Jesus was
going to do, and dying on a cross was not one of those things. None of the disciples got it. They weren’t listening, and that lack of
listening could have cost them their salvations. I did for Judas Iscariot. He betrayed Jesus and never repented but hung
himself without knowing about Jesus’s glorious resurrection.
But even in Mark 16:9-11, the disciples are still suffering
from not listening:
When Jesus rose early on the first day of the
week, he appeared first to Mary Magdalene, out
of whom he had driven seven demons.10 She went
and told those who had been with him and who were mourning and weeping. 11 When they heard that Jesus was alive and that she had seen
him, they did not believe it.
They did not believe it! How thick can you be? But Jesus was determined that they would be
saved, so he appeared to them and gave them their faiths. He does the same thing to you and me,
too. If you are going to be saved, then
he will teach you his message until he finally brings you home to belief in him
and eternity in his glorious presence.
Does anybody have a story of a
time when they finally understood something after a long time of not
understanding? Did a teacher have to
tell you something over and over and over until you finally got it? Or your mom or dad?
I remember one time I was
listening to rock music and mom came in and told me that she could tell I was
kind of sad because I was listening to rock music again. I was so mad at her because it was Switchfoot
which has always been one of my favorites.
A Christian band. But years
later, I still hear her telling me that because it’s true. If I’m sadder, I listen to more rock
music. But is that necessarily a bad
thing?
What does the world listen to when
its mad? Nirvana. I liked Smashing Pumpkins once. Those nineties rock bands on MTV that I
listened to for a spell in college and in my twenties. If you listen to them long enough, you become
angry and hopeless. But when mom passed
away, something changed in me and I decided that dark music wasn’t cool anymore
and started listening to more Jeremy Camp and godly music. Now, if I’m sad, I just switch to Flyleaf or
its former lead singer, Lacey Sturm.
It’s rock, yes, but it has hope in the Lord and helps me to heal and
live. If I need to scream, I scream with
hope.
So today, I’ve talked about why
you should listen to your friends, why it’s a matter of life and death whether
you listen to Jesus without thinking that you already know, and the importance
of listening to music that has hope in the Lord.