I still think they are great people and when I heard that Mark Hall had surgery for kidney cancer it was like I was praying for a friend. He at least goes to church with women I do Bible study with.
We did a song in church today by Mark Hall called "Love Them Like Jesus." Some people complain that praise and worship songs in church are too happy and don't deal with the real world like the Psalms do. This song is for you guys. It has one verse about a man leaving his wife and kid behind and another about a baby being stillborn. Those parents have already painted the room and have the shower gifts. It tells people who know them to "love them like Jesus." It's heartwrenching and comfort at the same time. It's like, yeah, God is wonderful and has a plan, but it's still alright to grieve even hopelessly at times. Our hope is in Jesus, the high priest who experienced everything we had but never sinned.
Psalm 13 and 88 were not afraid to honestly express anger and frustration. Psalm 73 is also a good one that points the the big picture of God in his temple.
I'm thinking, what are other good Christian songs that deal with grief?
It's been on the radio a while, but the Afters have a song called "Light up the Sky." Apparently they wrote that album when a friend of theirs died. The song is not very interesting to play, but the video will break your heart. It shows a woman weakened by chemo and facing terminal cancer, another woman abandoned by her husband, and a man who lost his job.
It's like I've discovered this song that's been around for 5 years now for the first time.
There is also a terrible joke about a photon, or light particle that checked in at a hotel. When asked if he needed help with his bags he said, "No, I'm traveling light." With that, here is an excellent duet from Joel Hanson and Sara Groves called "Traveling light."
I can just find myself heeding the advice of Hebrews 12 to throw off everything that hinders and run the race marked out for my by God.
And speaking of Joel Hanson, he has plenty of amazing songs that are just right for hurting people.
Jeremy Camp has helped me in grief. Switchfoot has helped me in disappointment. And whenever I think that I'm one step away from everything falling apart, I have to remind myself that I don't hold it all together anyway. Jesus holds it together and there is no hope apart from him.